The Absolute Guide To Becoming A Masculine Successful Man. Skills Gained Through Self-Improvement

My name is Nils, I have been studying, doing, and teaching this for over a year now.

My guess is that you don’t give rat’s shit about it. So just read it and make up your own mind.

What I do want to state before you do is: this isn’t some wishy-washy article, I will tell you step by step what to do for every single principle daily and why to do it.

So, you either will be leaving this actually doing it, or forgetting about it/ not implementing the things i tell you to, if it’s the latter, you could just as well go away, and not read it at all.

Read all of this with an open mind and ready to 1) being changed of mind. Or 2) Not.

Note; these principles SKILLS not character traits, thus this means they can be practised, I will list the daily practices.

There isn’t more to it.

Invest in self improvement, it may not be the answer you liked, but it’s the one you get.

Stop being a little boy, and invest in growing yourself. You may not look forward to doing these things YET. But eventually, you will even like the activities you are doing on a day to day basis in order to improve yourself. So, let's reflect, after a couple of months of participating in these habits, also called habits of delayed gratification, you will see major results, change, and, drumrolls, joy. Joy IN DOING these habits of delayed gratification.

So you may not like starting your journey RIGHT NOW. but i guarantee you, If you ignore and destroy your lizard brain(the part of your brain who thrives for instant gratification, e.g. drinking alcohol, binge social media scrolling, overall activities that give you pleasure, NOW)

And start your self-improvement journey and stay consistent, you WILL see results over time.

This is the wholesome part, you WILL eventually, start to LOVE doing these activities.

So, invest in this consistently for a couple months. And your day to day life will 1) Give you joy and pleasure from doing the growth-activities. And 2) Grow and improve your life, ON A DAY TO DAY basis.

So why not take the deal?

Okay, now you are convinced by this, I will give you the 7 principles to make growth in, in order to achieve a tremendous amount of 1) Results. And 2) Happiness.

(Note; These principles are not in order, they are, thus, equally important)

Principle number 1: Discipline

This is especially a MUST have for a man who wants to become more masculine

Discipline, since the dawn of time, literally defines masculinity. So if you are a little comfortable bitch, go and do things OUTSIDE of your comfort zone. Comfort is the killer of men, it takes away little bits of discipline every single time you have 2 choices, namely:

1. Comfortable way. 2) The uncomfortable way.

No.1 destroys your masculinity and No.2 BUILDS it, so good news for you, discipline isn’t a built in character trait, it’s a SKILL, that is, like all the other skills in existence, built through deliberate practice.

Thus, summarised: Masculinity is built through discipline and discipline is built through uncomfortable experiences, like expressing gratitude to a loved one, having humility while reflecting on actions and choices you made, and ofcourse number 1, going to the gym everyday. ( and having good nutrition, this is more than essential for your life.)

(Note; I am currently making a book about my workout and nutrition plan to which i can correlate with all the success i have in life right now, as well as yet to gain.)

Principle number 2: Ambition and Mission

Having a mission is so important for a man. A life’s mission, a purpose for which he gets out of bed for. If this mission isn’t there and a man lacks certain goals, He can literally die.

, because he has nothing to live for, so he doesn’t. It’s stated that simple, but science backs it up. So visualise what you want to achieve and when you have visualised what you want, write it on a paper. Make the goal exact (in numbers and date of time), for it to be an actual goal to thrive for. What does ambition mean? It’s quite the same, striving to be better, you become ambitious by improving at the skill. “But Nils, ambition isn’t a skill, it’s a character trait, right?”

I have good news, you are deadass wrong. It can be improved, thus it is a skill. Which can be improved through deliberate practice. The exact practice for this is: Building a business. So do this.

Principle number 3: Presence

This is such a beautiful thing, it gives you peace of mind, lets you enjoy the moment, and become more happy. To be presence means that you are here, now, in the moment.

Most of us aren’t. BUT this doesn’t mean you are doomed after all. QUIT social media completely, this makes you simply summarised, overstimulated. This means we are somewhere else with our thoughts. Either past or future, but not present.

You can improve this skill by mindful meditation. This is focussing on 1 particular thing for about 5 minutes ( when you just start) every day. I made a video about this and explained what to do – watch here – The ONLY video for mindful meditation that you will ever HAVE to watch (don’t miss this!) - YouTube

Principle number 4: gratitude.

Gratitude is literally the way of science saying “happiness”

I won’t explain this, because I assume you already know.

The practice for this is, writing on a piece of paper where you are grateful for today.

Write at least 5 things, and actually think about it, you will notice when you are in a state of mind where you ACTUALLY feel gratitude. Another thing is: write a gratitude letter for a person close to you. Read it out loud.

Principle number 5: humility

Humility is admitting and acknowledging to oneself that you can still grow in a particular thing, are bad in a skill, have a bad mental health and bad health. overall , just admitting things to yourself. thus, lowering the ego. This is the most important thing to make any growth whatsoever.

—HOW To Completely ELIMINATE Your EGO! - YouTube— (my video again)

Principle number 6: knowledge and understanding

Knowledge, we all know, is very rare and valuable in the current economy.

But also for yourself, it’s good to have a lot of knowledge. It increases your value.

Understanding is even more valuable, one can know, but understanding is a different skill.

To understand doesn’t merely say you possess knowledge, and Know what. but to know why.

This means that you have mastered the knowledge, and from this point on, can teach it.

When you have knowledge, you can’t teach it to people because you don’t have the understanding.

This gets me to the last principle but not least.

Principle number 7: leadership

This skill can only be acquired by first practising the previous vital habits.

Thus this means to teach all the skills you now possess to other people.

I wish you luck in your self-improvement journey!